Bee Ona

I think when you’ve lived in a world full of insincere and insecure human beings, the slightest view of the opposite character traits can make your heart skip. It skips in a beat in a certain way. It’s not like there aren’t people like this, there but your world isn’t like that.

When the sincerity and security isn’t slight, but is pure, whole, right, clean, confident and maybe a little bit arrogant because it’s based on the truth, it’s not only comforting but it’s warming to your brain and your heart. I’ve encountered a few people that have shown me what it’s like to be genuine in different ways and these ways are ways I’m not used to experiencing and it’s always ways that are different to the way I showcase my own sincerity. 

During my exploration of people, on a daily basis I’ve noticed that my reaction in awe means something. In my head I distinguish between certain types of things, and I think it’s depending on the personality or the depth of the person.

There’s love, then there’s LOVE. There’s exuding peace, then there’s PEACE. There’s being cool, then being the definition of cool. There’s something special in pretty much everyone I’ve met and that’s probably because they align with me in some way shape or form. What I mean when I say that there’s love and then there’s LOVE, is that some people just exude it. It’s in their spirit. Some people I think love from their heart and their soul. This is the only way I can explain it. There could be something else at their core but their love powers through. There could be love at their core but their light powers through – it’s a feeling. 

There is a heart, there is a spirit, there is a soul, there is a mind, there is a body. Spirit and soul can be used interchangeably. Heart and soul I think is also used interchangeably. Mind is obviously your head and your body is your physical appearance and physical function. 

My chosen ones (in the case of this article):

The genuine heart

This guy I met at the gym. I approached him and shared how cool I thought his work ethic was… he was consistent, diligent and he gained great results whilst he spent time there. It was a good short conversation where I just commended him. He seemed to be someone with a focused mindset and a focused and healthy heart to be honest. The diligence, humility and joy was then continuously showcased during the further conversations I’ve had with him. He shared how helpful the gym had actually been for his mental health, but it was his guanine and calm heart that surprised me. It felt like home. Intuition, emotional intelligence, kindness and care felt like. 

The cool soul

This woman I met at an event. Such a peaceful, calm, cool, spirited and energetic personality. Her confidence was calmed by her voice and her spirit. She looked too cool for school and it was obviously effortless and the truth is, she is cool inside because she is authentic, real and kind hearted. She was the truth and spoke to truth for the greater good of the group that she was in. The things I thought of and didn’t think it was necessary to say or the things I felt she basically said it. “Non-threatening” 

The baddest b

Now, let me talk about my definition of a bad b. My definition is a girl who has confidence, is a bit of a bad ass and a real g. This one is the BADDEST because her heart is like butter. She’s a real sweetheart. Don’t get me wrong, she is a G in the sense of it. Her head is on straight but the way she delivered the helpful words was so sweet that there’s so much more light there for the world to see. She’s real, she’s honest, she’s kind and she’s bloody talented.

These are a few people I’ve met recently that really changed a lot of my inhibitions. The inhibitions were very small, but it’s almost like they were mirrors of me. Sometimes there’s a time to talk, a time to play, vibe and a time to listen…I definitely heard and saw. There will never be too much mirroring for me..because they aren’t me. They are different in personality, characteristics, but the soul/core is the same.